最近从报上看到一位家长“把孩子培养成啥模样”的忧虑,深有同感。现将这位家长的“忧虑”摘录如下: 我的孩子12岁了,全家人深爱他,视为掌上明珠。但细想起来,除了成绩不错像当年的我而外,其他方面实在找不到闪光点。他自私,没有群体意识,一切以自我为中心,不爱别人,对父母也只知道索取,对父母为 I am most sympathetic about the concern recently expressed by a newspaper that parents have “made children look like what they want.” The parents’ worries are now excerpted as follows: My child is 12 years old, the whole family loved him, as the pearl of the palm. But in retrospect, in addition to good grades like me then, the rest can not find a bright spot. His selfish, no sense of community, all self-centered, do not love others, parents only know to ask for the parents