一要做到鼓励为主,切忌求全责备有一类孩子的确难教育一些,毛病多一些,优点少一些,很难事事达到家长的愿望。有的家长往往恨铁不成钢,整天唠叨张三家的儿子如何聪明好学,李四家的女儿又如何听话懂事,而把自己的孩子贬得一无是处,使孩子及早丧失与他人平等竞争的勇气和信心。久而久之,孩子会我行我素,破罐子破摔,而家长则要么放任不管,要么大发雷霆,甚至大打出手。正是这种动辄责骂,动 First, we should do our best to encourage and avoid having the full responsibility of a class of children is indeed difficult to educate some problems more advantages less, it is difficult to achieve the wishes of parents. Some parents often hate iron and steel, nagging the son of Zhang Sanjia how clever and studious, Li Si’s daughter how to be obedient and sensible, and to deny their children useless, so that children lose the courage to compete with others as soon as possible And confidence. Over time, children will go its own way, breaking the jar broken, and parents either let it go, or furious, and even fight. It is this scolding, moving