人生充满矛盾,正如泰戈尔所说,生活本身就是五花八门的矛盾集合——有自然的也有人为的,有想象的也有现实的。处在多事之秋的老年人更是面临着诸多矛盾,就如冯梦龙曾提到老人身上的种种反常现象:晚上睡不着但白天打瞌睡,不爱儿子但爱孙子,以前的忘不掉但眼前的记不牢,哭没泪但笑有泪,近的东西看不见而远的却能看见,打感觉不到痛而不打却浑身酸痛, Life is full of contradictions. As Tagore said, life itself is a diverse collection of conflicts - both natural and artificial, and imaginative and realistic. The elderly in troubled times are faced with many contradictions. Just as Feng Menglong once mentioned all kinds of anomalies in the elderly, they could not sleep at night but fell asleep during the day, they did not love their son but they loved their grandchild and they could not forget the past Not strong, crying, no tears, but laughing and tears, near things can see but can not see, do not hit the pain did not hit all the pain,