在我们这个倡导个性张扬的社会里,人人都自认为是有主见的,“我的事情我做主”几乎成了一句口头禅。虽然我们通过自己的经验知道,在面临多种选择时,其实有时候选择是很盲目的,远谈不上什么主见,但倘若有人向我们指出这一点,我们还嘴硬:“你又不是我肚子里的蛔虫,凭什么认为我在瞎抓一气呢?”然后一二三把自己如此这般选择的理由罗列出来,把他驳得哑口无言。这样之后,我们自己也越发确信自己是有主见的了。 In our society advocating individuality and publicity, everyone thinks they are assertive, and “my business is what I call the shots” is almost a mantra. Although we know through our own experience that when we face multiple choices, we sometimes choose to be very blind and far from any assertion. However, if anyone points to us, we are still blunt: “You are not me Belly roundworm, why do I think I’m blind grasping it? ”And then one two three reasons for their choice so listed them out, he refuted speechless. After that, we are increasingly convinced ourselves that we are assertive.