《菜根谭》中云:“路径窄处,留一步与人行;滋味浓的,减三分让人食。此是涉世一极乐法。”可谓深得处世的奥妙。发生在我家的一件小事,虽然过去了十多年,却深深留在了我的心中。那是1988年,父亲看着我们四兄弟一个个长大了,家里也有一点富余的钱,父亲便想扒掉老屋修新房。按当时 “Cai Gen Tan” in the cloud: “Narrow path, leaving one step and the pedestrian; taste thick, by one-third of the people to eat. This is a bliss of worldly law.” Can be described as wonders of life. A little thing that happened in my home, though more than a decade later, was deeply stuck in my heart. It was in 1988, my father watched one of our four brothers grew up, there is a little extra money at home, my father would like to get rid of the old house repair new house. At that time