八十年代的小阿姨,由农村进入大城市,绝大多数并非为了餬口养家,而是为了见见世面,或为将来出嫁准备一些积蓄。她们身上缺少五六十年代当阿姨的忍耐性,又都较之她们的上一代有一定的文化。她们讲感情的沟通,讲人格的尊重,唯恐别人瞧不起自己。 In the 1980’s, the little aunt came into the big cities from rural areas. The vast majority did not make a living for themselves but for the sake of seeing the world or preparing some savings for future marriages. They lack the patience of the aunt in the fifties and sixties and have a certain degree of culture over their predecessors. They talk about the feelings of communication, personality respect, lest others despise themselves.