一、孩子,无论你做什么事,我相信一定有你的理由,不过,能不能把你的理由告诉我,让我帮你分析一下?当孩子犯错误时,比如撒谎或拿钱、破坏东西、旷课等,如果家长的第一反应是否定,那么孩子将选择沉默或更大的较劲。研究发现,许多人爱占小便宜或喜欢饶舌、妒忌等,均与缺乏归属感有关。因此,接纳和理解是好办法。 First, children, no matter what you do, I believe there must be your reasons, but can you tell me your reason, let me help you analyze? When the child makes mistakes, such as lying or taking money to destroy things , Absenteeism, etc., if the parent’s first reaction is negative, then the child will choose silence or greater rivalry. The study found that many people love to chew or like rap, jealousy, etc., are related to the lack of sense of belonging. Therefore, acceptance and understanding are good ways.