女儿上初中了。和小学不一样的是,她的开销变大了,经常向我要钱,不是买课外书,就是买学具。要钱次数多了,我有点承受不住,经常劝女儿少买零食。女儿答应了,却没做到。有一天,女儿告诉我,有个同学得病做手术,家里没有钱,特别可怜,老师要求捐款。“用你的零花钱捐,别拿父母的钱做人情。”没等我回答,老公已经 Daughter on junior high school. Not the same as elementary school, her expenses are bigger, often ask me for money, not buy extracurricular books, buy study tools. More money, I am a bit unbearable, often advised her daughter to buy less snacks. My daughter agreed, but did not do it. One day, my daughter told me that there was a classmate who had surgery and had no money at home. He was particularly miserable. The teacher asked for donations. “Use your pocket money to donate, do not take parental money to be human.” "Without my answer, my husband has been