一个人如果永远说“不”,只说明他(她)苛刻,而一个人如果永远不会说“不”。你完全可以判定他(她)既无诚意又无自信。可以说,这种人比前一种人更不可交,虽然其本意可能只是随和与善良。 更可悲的是,一个人如果永远不会在必要的时候说“不”,也相当于在无形中剥夺了自己大部分的自由与选择。 但不管怎么说,“不”是说起来最为难的一个字。 很多人认为,拒绝是一种缺乏涵养的冒犯,会使自 A person who always says “no” only shows that he or she is harsh, and that a person can never say “no”. You can judge that he or she is neither sincere nor confident. It can be said that such people are more disrespectful than the former, although their intention may simply be easygoing and kindhearted. Even more sadly, a person who never says “no” when it is necessary is equivalent to virtually depriving himself of most of his freedom and choice. But anyway, “no” is the hardest word to say. Many people think that refusal is an offense that is lacking in conservation and that self-inflicted