现在的青少年,生长在阳光下,享受着父母的宠爱和社会的呵护,少有父辈们经历过的艰苦和磨难,很多青少年心理十分脆弱,一方面随着年龄的增长,许多青少年的参与意识、竞争意识得到了增强,觉得自己长大了,可以独自解决问题了;另一方面,较为幼稚的心理和片面的思想观念,使他们缺乏足够的忍耐和宽容,小小挫折,就有可能让其崩溃,究其根源,就是缺乏生活 Nowadays, adolescents, growing up in the sun, enjoy the love of their parents and the care of the community. They seldom have the hardships and hardships experienced by their fathers. Many adolescents are mentally fragile. On the one hand, with adolescence, many adolescents' On the other hand, the more naive psychology and one-sided ideology make them lack of patience and tolerance, with little setback, it is possible to let them grow up and think that they have grown up and can solve the problem alone. The root cause of the collapse is the lack of life