可能每个人都有一些不太好意思跟人分享的爱好吧,不好意思的原因是因为牵涉到各自不同的方面。我们需要面对的世界充满多样性与复杂性,而自己只是一个个体,当有些爱好只是满足了自己,却未必能说服别人时,就成了秘密。这可能是大部分人不愿与他人分享私密爱好的主要原因。其实当爱好是隐秘的,反而更纯粹。它完全不用考虑别人的评价,只是单纯地服务自己、属于自己,因此这样的爱好,它的自我满足度与安抚的能量就更为巨大。跟所有人一样,我也有着许多不同的爱好,有些可以分享,有些则不能。 Everyone may have some do not feel very good to share with others hobbie, I am sorry because of the different aspects involved. We need to face the world full of diversity and complexity, and they are just an individual, when some hobbies only satisfy themselves, but not necessarily convincing others, it becomes a secret. This may be the main reason most people do not want to share their personal interests with others. In fact, when hobbies are hidden, but more pure. It does not have to consider the evaluation of others, just serve yourself, belong to themselves, so this hobby, its self-satisfaction and appease the energy is even greater. Like everyone else, I also have many different hobbies, some can share, some can not.