在我的家庭档案里，有“母亲的教诲”这一类目。类目名称源于家乡流传的“养儿不教，娇儿上灶”的一句古 训，这一训诫从反面说明了父母对子女教育的重要性。母爱是伟大的，而母亲的教诲是最好的母爱。我母亲在十年前就已去世，如今我也早已当了母亲，但她的谆谆教诲还清楚地记 In my family file there is the category of “mother’s teachings.” The category name stems from an old saying circulating in the homeland that “raising children and not teaching, child care centers”. This admonition, on the contrary, shows the importance of parents to their children’s education. Motherhood is great, and mother’s teachings are the best maternal love. My mother died a decade ago, and now I am already a mother, but her teachings are clearly recorded