“我不比同学懒，为什么同学学习成绩那么好，我却赶不上?”“为什么自己个头这么矮，女同学好像不太喜欢我?”“为什么自己生活在这样一个贫困的家庭，不能要什么有什么?”……这些自卑情绪，如果让其日积月累，变成一种难以逾越的心理障碍，那么就会给身心造成极大的伤害。但 “I am not more lazy than my classmates. Why is it that classmates are so good at studying grades, but I can’t keep up?” “Why is my head so short, and my classmates don’t seem to like me?” “Why I live in such a poor family and I can’t ask for anything?” "... These feelings of inferiority, if allowed to age, become an insurmountable psychological obstacle, then it will cause great harm to the body and mind. but