论文部分内容阅读
我一直信奉自己的孩子自己带。在我的心目中,把孩子生下来并亲自把孩子抚育培养成人的母亲才是真正的母亲。基于这一点,我的孩子从出生到现在3周岁了,基本上是我一手把他养大的。我可以由衷地说:“真累。”但这么说的时候我一点也没有后悔的意思,可以说“无怨无悔”。至今我仍然不明白为什么有些年轻的母亲为了能出去多跳几场舞,多搓几圈麻将,就把孩子扔下不管;或者借口工作忙,事业家庭不能兼顾就把孩子推给别人。另一方面,我也看到许多长辈在儿女旁边指指点点,万分不放心,并以“长辈带小孩,还能不放心”为理由,把抚育孩子的权利从儿女手中“抢”过去。
I have always believed in my own children. In my mind, it is the real mother who gives birth to a child and nurtures her own child. Based on this, my child has been 3 years old since birth, basically I raised him by hand. I can sincerely say: “Tired. ” But when I say that I have no regret, I can say “no regrets ”. So far I still do not understand why some young mothers in order to go out to dance more than a few dance, rub a few laps rubbing more than a few mahjong, throw their children no matter; or excuse to work hard, career families can not take the child pushed to others. On the other hand, I have also seen that many elders point finger at the children and are extremely relieved and use “elders with children to rest assured” as a justification to seize their children’s rights from the hands of their children. "past.