有相当一部分孩子刚进幼儿园时,与小朋友生活在一起会显得不知所措,他们害怕上幼儿园,较长时间不能适应集体生活。这些孩子一种表现为“怯弱型”,胆小,不敢和其他小朋友一起玩,碰到不如意的事就掉眼泪;另一种则是“霸道型”,蛮横无理,想做的一定要做,想玩的一定要抢到手。究其原因,是父母对孩子保护过严,整天把孩子关在家里,唯恐出去受人欺侮,发生意外,不让他们结识同伴,缺少与人交往的经验。作父母的应引导孩子学会交往。首先,要激发孩子交往的愿望。幼儿以形象思维为主,天性好奇,喜欢接触新鲜有趣的事物。因此,父母应抓住这一特点,给孩子看一些有许多小朋友一起做游戏的图片,讲一些关于儿童集体生活中有趣的故事,告诉孩子,和小朋友一起玩是一件很开心的事情,等等。同时,还可以带孩子上幼儿园、少年宫等 When a considerable number of children first came to kindergarten, they would be overwhelmed with their children’s lives. They were afraid of going to kindergarten and could not adapt to collective life for a long time. One of these children’s performance is “timid”, timid, afraid to play with other children, met tears of unpleasant things; the other is “overbearing type”, rude, want to do must be done , Want to play must grab the hand. The reason is that parents protect their children too severely and shut their children home all day long, lest they go out to be bullied, accidents happen, they will not be allowed to get acquainted with their peers and lack of experience in dealing with others. Parents should guide their children to learn to socialize. First of all, want to stimulate children’s desire to socialize. Toddlers are mainly based on the image of thinking, nature is curious, like to touch fresh and interesting things. Therefore, parents should seize this characteristic to show their children some pictures of many children playing games together. Tell some interesting stories about children’s collective life, tell their children that it is a pleasure to play with children, etc. Wait. At the same time, you can also bring children to kindergarten, children’s palace and so on