有些人,听众越多越有说话欲,那是一种陶醉其中的表演。一次和少言的朋友在车里,车程一个钟头左右,我们几乎一声不吭。我原本怕冷场,想找些话题,后来发现这寻找是不必要的。对于一个少言者,在他不想说时,保护这种沉默是种善举。碰到少言的人,也别轻易下定义,别轻易惊扰他的沉默。在另一个空间,他或许是个极爱述说的人,他此刻的沉默只为了把话都留给某些人,甚至某一个人。 Some people, the more listener more talkative, it is a revelry show. One and a few words of friends in the car, about an hour’s drive, we almost silent. I was afraid of the cold field, looking for some topic, and later found that the search is unnecessary. For a few speakers, it is a good act to protect this silence when he does not want to say anything. Do not touch the words of people, do not easily define, do not easily disturb his silence. In another space, he may be a very love to say, his silence at the moment just to leave the words to some people, or even somebody.