本文就 3 2 9名中学、中专生心理咨询书信进行了分析 ,发现引起中学、中专女生心理困扰并促使其寻求帮助的最常见原因依次为 :恋情、人际关系、容貌形体和健康问题 ;男生求助原因则依次为 :健康问题、容貌形体、人际关系 ,说明男女生在求助内容方面有一定差异 ,但更为突出的是女生遭遇心理问题后寻求外界帮助明显多于男生。对此我们提出了一些心理干预对策和措施 This article analyzes 393 middle school and secondary school students’ psychology counseling letters and finds that the most common causes that cause psychological distress and help them to seek help in secondary school and secondary school are as follows: love affair, interpersonal relationship, appearance and health problems; The reasons for the boys’ help are as follows: health problems, appearances and relationships, which shows that boys and girls have some differences in the content of asking for help. But more prominent are the girls seeking more help than the boys after encountering psychological problems. In this regard, we put forward some psychological intervention measures and measures