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在人际关系中,我们能明显地感觉到身边朋友有的人合群有的人不合群,合群的人会给人随和的感觉,不合群的人却给人不好接触的感觉。如果我们自己就属于不合群的人,那么我们应该如何来调节呢?关心和喜爱别人如果期望被人关心和喜爱,你首先得关心和喜爱别人。帮助别人克服了困难,不仅可以赢得别人的尊重和喜爱,而且由于你的关心引起了别人的积极反应,也会给你带来满足感,并增强你与人交往的自信心。除了关心别人以外,有了困难你要学会向别人求助,因为别人帮助你克服了困难,你的心理当然就会从紧张转为轻松。这不
In the interpersonal relationship, we can obviously feel that some people around our friends are not well-grounded. Some people who gregarily give a feeling of easygoingness, while those who are not well-grounded have a feeling of poor contact. If we ourselves belong to non-group people, then how should we adjust? Care and love of others If you expect to be loved and loved, you must first care and love of others. Helping others to overcome difficulties not only wins the respect and affection of others, but also gives you a sense of satisfaction and confidence in your interactions with others because your concerns have caused positive reactions from others. Except for caring for others, you have to learn to turn to others for help. Because others help you to overcome the difficulties, your psychology will surely turn from stressful to relaxed. This is not