做了父母，不论我们在社会中是领导着别人还是被别人领导，如今自己孩子的命运多多少少要由我们来决定了。要完成好自己的这个职责，有许多的学问，其中有一点一定要坚守，那就是千万不要急功近利，即不要急于追求眼前的成效和利益。这样的想法在我的脑海中已经萦绕了很久，看 Parents, whether we lead or lead others in our society, the fate of our own children is more or less decided by us. To accomplish this duty well, there is much to be learned, of which one must stick to it. That is to say, do not rush to quick success and quick success, that is, do not rush to pursue the immediate results and interests. This idea has been haunted in my mind for a long time, look