一家媒体采访苏联著名科学家尤比契夫,摄影师给他拍照时,他开玩笑说:“要照相不应该照脸,而应该照臀部。”这个玩笑很幽默,但也很实在。意思就是说,像他们那些学者所取得的成功,全在于屁股“坐得住”。其实,这种“坐得住”的态度正是我们大多数人缺乏的“静”的心态。一个人如果想要在某个方面有所建树,就必须耐得住寂寞,坐得住冷板凳。板凳要坐十年冷。“静而后能安,安而后能虑,虑 A media interview with the Soviet Union’s famous scientist Euchipov, when the photographer took pictures of him, he joked: ”They should not look at the face but should look at the buttocks.“ This joke is humorous, but it is very real. The implication is that the successes of scholars like them are all in the ass. In fact, this ”sit and hold“ attitude is the ”quiet“ mentality that most of us lack. If one wants to build something in a certain area, one must endure loneliness and sit on a bench. The bench should sit ten years cold. ”Secure and then able to safety, security and then consider, consider