心理学家凯伦·霍尼认为:渴望有意义的独处时间是人类的正常需求。健康的人总是能够合理地分配对他人抑或是人群的接近、远离或排斥。这一观点让我们了解到,人际往来并不是表面意义上的积极热情与消极懈怠,它应该是多元且非僵化的。“宅”的心理隐患虽然很多时候我们需要自我空间,然而任何一种社会行为都会有它的适宜标准。心理学家研究发现,孤独会削弱人体免疫系统,使人体血压上升,压 Psychologist Karen Horny argues that it is the normal human need to crave meaningful solitude. Healthy people are always able to reasonably allocate access to, stay away from, or exclude others or their populations. This view makes us understand that interpersonal contacts are not superficial positive enthusiasm and negative slackness, it should be pluralistic and non-rigid. Psychological Hidden Problems Although many times we need self-space, any kind of social behavior will have its own appropriate standard. Psychologists study found that loneliness will weaken the body’s immune system, so that human blood pressure, pressure