别让自已树敌太多黄越人际交往中的“树敌”过多，从主观原因上追究，主要是“自以为是，当面斥人，嗜好争辩”。例如，你用口语、手势或文章告诉一个同事：“你错了！”你的目的是否要使他认同？他会认同吗？不太可能。因为你已经对他的自尊、骄傲、智慧给了“当头一棒”... Do not let too many enemies of their own enemies too much Huang more in the “tree enemy” in interpersonal communication, from the subjective reasons to pursue, mainly “self-righteousness, face to face people, hobbies argue.” For example, you tell a colleague in your own words, gestures, or articles: “You’re wrong!” Does your purpose make him agree? Does he agree? Not too possible. Because you have given him a “sweeping blow” to his self-esteem, pride, wisdom ...