最近,我忽然有这样一个奇特的感觉,见很多年轻的父母没有脸了,他们的脸,眼睛、鼻子,诸如此类的,全都长到他们的儿女身上——儿女没有了自身,成了父母的脸。这不是呓语,而是一种荒诞的真实。有些家长很喜欢在孩子的吃穿打扮、玩具图书等方面与他人攀比,他们很舍得为孩子购买高档玩具、流行服装,给孩子大把的零花钱,以此显示自己的富有和与众不同,并从中得到胜过别人的满足和快感。 Recently, I suddenly had such a peculiar feeling that many young parents had no face. Their faces, eyes, nose, and the like all grew up to their children - their children did not have themselves and became parents’ faces . This is not a rhetoric, but an absurd truth. Some parents like to compare with others in children’s clothes, toys, books, etc. They are willing to buy high-end toys, fashion clothes for their children, give children a lot of pocket money in order to show their wealth and distinctiveness, And get better than others satisfaction and pleasure.