孩子上到小学三年级时学习成绩下降,我采用了盯人防守的管理方法,非但没有奏效,情况反而越来越不好。我就像双手抓了把沙子,越使劲握,越握不住,沙子顺着我手指间的缝隙往外跑,我越加力握,它跑得也越快。我能使用的办法越来越少,可孩 When my children went to grade three in primary school, their academic performance dropped. I used a man-to-man defense management method. Instead of working, the situation was getting worse and worse. I was like hands clutching the sand, the harder grip, the more can not hold the sand along the gap between my fingers ran out, the more I grip, it runs faster. I can use less and less methods, can be child