在独生子女的众多问题中,孩子的“年龄感、成长意识”有必要引起家长们的重视。不知您发现没有,独生子女在家庭中,与上一代或两代人生活在一起,“目已小,是个孩子”的感觉是很强的。而有时又在直接与家长们对话中,失去了年龄上的自我感党,在心灵深处有一种迷茫。比较一下,在多子女的家庭中,孩子们之间首先有一个“相对年龄”——如做父母的常对年长的这样说:“你还当哥哥(姐姐)呢,一点儿大孩子的样都没有。”在这种比较式的提醒和教育中,排行在前的孩子往往多些责任感和较快地成熟起来。而对于排行在后的“弟、妹”级的孩子呢,他 Among the many problems of only children, children’s “sense of age, sense of growth,” it is necessary to arouse the attention of parents. I do not know you found no, only child in the family, with the previous generation or two generations living together, “is small, is a child ” feeling is very strong. And sometimes in direct dialogue with parents, lost their sense of self-perception of age, there is a confusion in the depths of the soul. Compare, in a multi-child family, there is a “relative age” among the children first - as often as a parent says to an elderly person: “Are you still brother (sister), a little bit The big children do not have one. ”In this comparative reminder and education, the top children tend to be more responsible and mature faster. For the ranking of the “younger brother, sister” level of the child, he