首先要防止孩子嫉妒心理的产生。父母除了要指导孩子正确地认识和评价别人以外,更重要的是尽量避免易使孩子产生嫉妒心理的环境刺激。其次要设法使嫉妒的消极作用向积极方面转化。这主要靠父母的教育与诱导,通过父母的教育诱导而激发孩子的竞争意识和自强信念,培养孩 First of all, to prevent the child from jealousy. In addition to guiding their children to correctly recognize and evaluate others, it is even more important that parents try their best to avoid the environmental irritations that make their children feel jealous. Second, we must try to make the negative effects of jealousy turn positive aspects. This mainly relies on the education and induction of parents, through their parents’ education to stimulate their children’s sense of competition and self-confidence, develop children