“我说不行就不行。”这是典型的暴君式教育方式,不仅会影响亲子关系的建立,导致亲子之间的对立和冲突,更会妨碍孩子民主意识、协商能力的发展,甚至还会导致暴力倾向。“再不听话我就打你了。”气愤至极的父母经常会在动手前警告孩子:“再不听话我就打你了。”这类空洞的话只会降低父母的威信,不 “This is a typical tyrant education, not only affect the establishment of parent-child relationship, leading to confrontation and conflict between parents and children, but also hinder the development of children’s democratic awareness, consultation ability, and even Will lead to violent tendencies. ”I’ll hit you again if I’m not obedient.“ ”Angry parents often warn their children before they start:“ If you do not listen, I’ll hit you. ”Such empty words will only reduce the prestige of their parents,