人与人之间你看我，我看你，是再普通、再普遍不过的事了。然而怎样看则是大有讲究的，至少从礼仪上说，就有礼貌与不礼貌之分。生活中许多矛盾和冲突，往往就与看人时礼仪失当大有干系。怎样看人的问题，属于情态礼仪的范畴。在中国古代，看叫做视，有不少礼仪方面的规定和说? Look at me from person to person, I see you, is normal, then common thing. However, how to look is great stress, at least from the ritual, polite and impolite. Many contradictions and conflicts in life tend to have a lot to do with misconduct in seeing people. How to look at human issues belongs to the category of modal etiquette. In ancient China, look called as visual, there are many rules and regulations of etiquette?