西方国家的家长从锻炼孩子的独立生活能力出发,对孩子的教育采取“放手而不放任”的方法进行。所谓“放手”,即从孩子生下来,父母就设法给他们创造自我锻炼的机会和条件,让他们在各种环境中得到充分的锻炼。普遍的做法是,根据不同年龄,让孩子做自我 The parents of western countries start from exercising children’s independent living ability and carry out their education of “letting go but not letting go”. The so-called “let go”, that is, born from children, parents try to create opportunities and conditions for self-exercise, so that they can be fully exercise in a variety of environments. It is common practice to have your child self-fulfilling depending on age