“天下之本在国,国之本在家”。家庭是组成社会的基本形式,是构建和谐社会的基石。没有千千万万个家庭的和谐,就不可能有整个国家的稳定与繁荣。然而,随着改革开放的深入、市场经济的发展、社会结构的转型,引发的各种困扰和压力已延伸到家庭中来,现代家庭生活中的“不和谐音”越来越多,价值观念扭曲、夫妻关系紧 “The world is in this country, the country is home”. The family is the basic form of society and the cornerstone of building a harmonious society. Without the harmony of thousands of families, it is impossible to have the stability and prosperity of the entire country. However, with the deepening of reform and opening up, the development of market economy and the transformation of social structure, all kinds of distress and pressure have been extended to families. More and more “disharmony” in modern family life has come into being. Distorted values, tight relationship between husband and wife