日常生活中,我们到处可见“长不大”的孩子。缺少独立性可谓独生子女的“通病”。我们许多期望孩子成才,扶助孩子成才的家长们,包揽了孩子力所能及的很多事情,以至养成孩子事事依赖别人,独立性差。长此以往,这些依赖性强 In everyday life, we can see “grown up” children everywhere. The lack of independence is the “common problem” of only children. Many of our parents, who expect their children to become successful and help their children become successful, have taken over many things within their reach as much as they have relied on others for their children’s development and their independence is poor. Over time, these dependencies are strong