在家庭教育中这种现象很常见:以父母的好恶来决定孩子的好恶,以为父母喜欢的孩子也喜欢,以为父母不感兴趣的孩子也不必感兴趣,总爱把父母的意志强加于孩子,而且很多父母认为自己这样做,客观上是为了孩子好。人们在日常生活中常常自觉不自觉地把自己的心理特征(如个性、好恶、欲望、观念、情绪等) This phenomenon is common in family education: it is decided by the parents’ likes and dislikes that the children are likes and dislikes, that the children their parents like also do not need to be interested in, and that their children are not always interested in their parents. Many parents think that they are doing so objectively for their children. People in their daily lives are often consciously or unconsciously put their psychological characteristics (such as personality, likes and dislikes, desires, ideas, emotions, etc.)