教好一个孩子并不比教好一个班级的学生容易。原来在平时的教育中,我力求孩子听话,懂事,事事严要求,可是,结果却是事与愿违。我是在严要求和溺爱中教育孩子的。学了心理咨询课后,我蓦然发现,我已经偏离了教育孩子的方向,原来你是上天交给我保管的一颗最珍贵的宝石,我没有权力打你,我没有权力骂你,我也没有权力对你指手画脚。母亲的形象,自始自终影响着每一个人的人生——。我庆幸,在我要去打开别人心门的时候,我的心门先被打开了。 Teaching a child is no better than teaching a class student. In the usual education, I tried my best to be obedient, sensible and everything in order. However, the result was contrary to expectations. I am educating children in demanding and spoiled. After I learned the psychological counseling class, I suddenly found out that I had deviated from the direction of educating my children. As a matter of fact, you were the most precious gem I had custody of God. I did not have the power to beat you. I did not have the power to scold you. I also There is no power to point your finger at you. The image of the mother, from beginning to end, affects everyone ’s life. I am fortunate that when I was going to open the door of others, my heart was opened first.