我曾听过这样的对话——“你和某某走得挺近啊?”“嗯,是啊,朋友呗。”“你干吗和她交朋友啊?她好像很有心机的样子。”心机女很可怕吗?台湾主持人兼作家蔡康永有一段话说得很高妙:“我不愿意把心机讲成生存的技巧,我宁愿把它说成是一个女性的特权。”你一点也没有心机?那或许,你放弃了你的特权,放弃了审时度势、因势利导去发挥自己能量的权利。心机其实本来是一个很中立的词。在所谓的善良和所谓的单纯似乎更有坦荡的空间时,在小 I have heard such a dialogue - “You and So and so close ah?” “Ah, yes, my friend chant.” “Why did you make friends with her? ”Taiwan's host and writer Tsai Kang-yung has a very good remark: “ I do not want to turn my heart into survival skills, I would rather put it as a woman's privilege. ”Maybe you did not give up your privileges, you gave up the opportunity to assess the situation, to make the best use of their own energy. In fact, the heart machine has always been a very neutral term. In the so-called kind and so-called purely plausible more space, in small