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孩子在3岁左右逐渐形成性别意识,这时他们对自己的生殖器更加感兴趣,这常让父母感到不安。有的父母希望通过严厉指责来制止孩子对性器官的探索,结果却可能事与愿违:父母的过度反应和遮遮掩掩的态度,增加了性器官的神秘感,更容易激起孩子的好奇心。父母这样做,也会妨碍孩子健康性心理的形成,认为凡是与性器官相关的事情都是羞耻的、肮脏的,都是需要被抑制的,不利于孩子成年后正确对待性行为和性冲动。正确的做法是:
Children gradually become sexually aware about the age of 3, when they are more interested in their genitals, which often leave parents feeling uneasy. Some parents hope severely criticized to stop the child’s exploration of sexual organs, the result may be contrary to expectations: parents overreaction and secretive attitude, increasing the mystery of sexual organs, more likely to arouse the child’s curiosity. Parents also hinder the formation of healthy psychology of their children, believing that all things related to sexual organs are shameful and dirty, which need to be restrained and not conducive to proper treatment of sexual behavior and sexual impulses. The correct approach is: