编辑同志;您好!由于考上大学后留在省城工作,我差不多有十来年不和父母生活在一起了,但因为对父母亲的牵挂,我每周都会给父母打两三次电话,问候和关心惦记他们的身体。近来,有一个比较奇怪的现象是,母亲总是会在电话中有意无意地抱怨父亲夜里不睡觉,总是坐着抽烟,还说一些消极悲观的话,不是说自己活不长了,就是觉得自己活着 Editor comrades; hello! Because I stayed in the provincial capital after I was admitted to university, I lived with my parents for almost 10 years. However, because of the concern for my parents, I call parents two or three times a week. And caring about their body. Recently, a strange phenomenon is that mothers always complain about their phones intentionally or unconsciously that their father does not sleep at night, always sitting smoking and saying something negative and pessimistic, not to say that they are not living longer, that they feel that they Alive