读者若对报刊上的各类社会新闻稍加留意,便不难发现这样一个现象:不少纠纷乃至犯罪,其由头基本上都是些鸡毛蒜皮类的小事。如果双方均宽容大度,互相做出一些让步,很多事件原本是可以平息的。但令人遗憾的是,一旦出现纷争,当事双方不是我怪你无理取闹,就是你怨 If readers pay any attention to the various types of social media in newspapers and periodicals, it is not hard to find such a phenomenon: many disputes and even criminal activities are fundamentally trivial. If both parties are generous and make concessions to each other, many incidents would have subsided. However, it is regrettable that in the event of a dispute, the parties are not the ones who blame you for being unreasonable and you are resentful