曾国藩是我国近代史上一个颇有影响力的人物,他不但博学多才,文武兼备,教育孩子也别具一格,卓有成效。纵观曾国藩的著述和书信,可以看出他的育儿秘诀主要体现在以下几个方面。读书明理,学会做人。曾国藩认为,读书不是为做官,而在于明事理。当官是一个时期的事,而做人则是一辈子的事。职位的高低取决干别人,而学问的多寡则完全取决干自己。一个人要想将来有所作为,就得有深广的学识,就得有过硬的本领,因此曾国藩从小就注意到了对孩子学习兴趣的培养,让孩子们喜欢读书,乐于读书。他要求孩子们,古今中外广泛涉猎,并从书中学会 Zeng Guofan is an influential person in modern history in our country. He not only learned a lot but also enjoyed both military and criminal activities. His education of children is also unique and fruitful. Throughout Zeng’s writings and letters, we can see that his parenting tips are mainly reflected in the following aspects. Study well, learn to be human. Tseng Kuo-fan believes that reading is not for official purposes, but rather for clarification. An officer is a matter of time, while being a man is a lifetime. The level of jobs depends on others, and the degree of knowledge is completely dependent on their own. If a man wants to make a difference in the future, he must have a profound knowledge and a strong ability. Therefore, since his childhood, Zeng Guofan noticed the cultivation of his children’s interest in learning so that children would like to study and be happy to study. He demanded that children should study extensively, both at home and abroad, and learn from books