成为男子汉是儿子的成长目标,也是父亲对儿子的希望。由于儿童的生活际遇不同,他们的成长道路也不同。常星儿从父与子关系的视角展开叙述,揭示了当代辽西儿童在成长过程中所呈现出的某些共性问题,特别是父与子之间关系的问题。透过这些关系我们看到了传统文化在儿童成长过程中所具有的重要作用,同时作家还表现了儿童对传统的父辈文化的超越,这是时代在儿童成长过程中留下的烙印。 Being a man is a son’s growth goal and a father’s hope for his son. Because of the different life experiences of children, they have different paths of growth. Chang Xing-er started from the perspective of the relationship between father and son and revealed some common problems that contemporary western Liaoning children showed during their growth, especially the relationship between father and son. Through these relationships, we have seen the important role that traditional culture plays in the process of children’s growth. At the same time, the writer shows that children surpass the traditional parent culture, which is a mark left by the age in the process of children’s growth.