在当今中国家庭里,很多家长面临着这样一种困惑:随着孩子一天天地长大,与孩子的交流却越来越难了。特别是上了初中或高中的孩子,与父母的共同语言越来越少了,不像过去在小学那样,一回到家,把学校发生的事情一五一十地讲给爸爸妈妈听;不再让父母翻看自己的书包、日记、作文;不愿 In today’s Chinese family, many parents are confronted with the confusion that as their children grow up day by day, the communication with their children is getting harder and harder. Especially in junior high school or high school children, with their parents less and less common language, unlike in the primary school, as soon as a home, the school happened to tell Mom and Dad heard from time to time; no longer Let parents look at their school bags, diaries, composition; not willing