生活中常有这样的事情：因主观或客观原因你不能满足朋友提出的要求，直接拒绝又担心朋友不理解而伤了感情，这时就需要采取迂回的策略。拖延法若当时不便拒绝朋友的要求，而是否满足对朋友要求对其工作、生活、前途并无多大影响，这时候就可采用拖延法，说明立刻满足对方的要 Often in life there is such a thing as subjective or objective reasons that you can not meet the demands of your friends, rejecting them directly, and worrying about friends who do not understand and hurt your feelings. At this time, you need to adopt a roundabout strategy. If the delaying law is not convenient to reject the request of a friend at the time, and whether meeting the requirements of a friend has no significant impact on his work, life and future, the delaying law may at this time be used to describe the immediate need to satisfy each other