日前,微博调查显示,国人口头禅多为宣泄语,其中,“随便”再次获得第一名。早在2012年3月,新浪网的调查显示,国人最爱说的十大口头禅中,“随便”以30.4%的得票率夺魁。无独有偶,美国纽约马里斯特大学调研所调查最令美国人反感的日常用词,“随便”(whatever)以47%的得票率位居榜首。值得注意的是,接受调查的多为青少年。为什么孩子爱说“随便”呢?这个词的背后隐藏着怎样的心理?本期,我们邀请心理学硕士、国家二级心理咨询师龚芳女士,与家长朋友们一起座谈这个话题。 A few days ago, the Weibo survey showed that most of the people in China were venting words, among which “casually” won first place again. As early as March 2012, a survey conducted by Sina.com showed that among the top ten mantra people love to say, “casually” won the prize at 30.4% of the vote. Coincidentally, the United States New York University of Surrey survey of Americans most objectionable everyday words, “random” (whatever) topped the list with 47% of the vote. It is noteworthy that most of the respondents are young people. Why do children say “casual”? What kind of psychological is hidden behind the word? In this issue, we invited Master Gong Psychology, the second-level psychologist consultant, Ms. Gong Fang to talk with parents and friends about this topic.