五、以歌会友:远地缘寨际关系的拓展以“近地缘异斗内婚”为基础,传统南侗人的亲缘关系总是限定在一定的地缘范围之内,亲缘与地缘相叠合的这部分人群,成为其生命过程中主要依托的人群单位。但若仅从地缘交往的角度来看,南侗人以“寨”(同地缘)为单位,在近地缘之外还拓展出两种交往方式:一为“款组织”一为“做客圈” Fifth, the song will be friends: far-edge relationship between the expansion of the village to “near-edge heterosexual marriage” as the basis, the traditional relationship of the South Dong is always limited to a certain geographical extent, relatives and geography overlap This part of the crowd, become the mainstay of their lives in the crowd unit. However, if only from the perspective of geo-social interaction, the people of Nan Dong use “village” (same geo-geographical) as their unit, and extend two forms of communication outside the immediate vicinity: one is “organization” “Guest circle ”