我们经常会听到这样的抱怨:孩子不尊重家长的劳动,对家长的所有关心和操劳没有一丝感激之情。但是,孩子不懂事只是一个结果,不是原因。原因在哪里?原因在于家庭没有教,进一步说,是没有教会孩子认识和理解他人。当然,孩子在家庭中没有得到的东西,在集体与同龄人的交往中可以得到。这也是教育学十分注意在集体中并通过集体教育孩子的缘故。这种教育可以使孩子清楚地认识自己和他人,善于理解他人的利益,明了他人所关心的事情以 We often hear such complaints: Children do not respect the parents’ work, no gratitude for all the parents care and work hard. However, ignorance of children is only a result, not a reason. The reason is that? The reason is that the family did not teach, to further say, is not to teach children to understand and understand others. Of course, what children do not get at home is available in the group’s interaction with their peers. It is also why pedagogy pays great attention to the collective education of children. This kind of education can make children know oneself and others clearly, be good at understanding others’ interests, understand other people’s concerns