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1.“妈,您不懂……”在处理家务事或者照顾小孩子时,年轻媳妇这句话最伤老人心。虽然说她可能确实不懂。现代化的家电她不会使,现代化的育儿方法她没听说过,现代社会中的人情世故她弄不明白,但是,这一切并不代表她没能力、没见识。而一句“您不懂”却完全把她排除在整个事件之外,不亚于说“你什么都不知道就别掺和了”。所以不妨改称“妈,请您告诉我……”
1. “Mom, you do not understand ... ...” When dealing with housework or take care of young children, the words of the young wife the most hurt the elderly heart. Although she may not really understand. She does not know how to modernize her home appliances. She has never heard of the modern way of raising children. She does not understand the old-fashioned situation in modern society. However, all this does not mean she has no ability and no knowledge. And the phrase “you do not understand” completely excludes her from the whole incident, as much as saying “you do not know what you did not mix”. So may wish to rename “Mom, please tell me ... ”