和朋友们聊天,我问:“你们遇到看不惯的人,一般怎么做呢?”几个姑娘干脆利落地说:“走开,无视,自动屏蔽,置之不理!”另外几个姑娘的反应与之不同:“一般会从自己身上找原因,觉得看不惯是自己修养不够的原因,不能理解他们。”后来,我又把这个问题陆续抛给了很多人,收到的回复中大部分会选择从自己身上找原因,给出的解释多是:“我觉得看不惯是自己经历得不够多,当你遇到过足够多的人和事儿后,就没啥看不惯的了。”“你 Chatting with friends, I asked: ”You meet people who can not understand, how to do it in general?“ Several girls simply said neatly: ”go away, ignore, automatically shield, ignore!“ The response of the girls is different: ”Generally, I find reasons from myself, I feel unbearable to myself because I do not have enough self-cultivation, I can not understand them.“ Later on, I threw this problem one after another to many people Most of the replies will choose to find their own reasons, given more explanation: ”I think I can not understand that they have not experienced enough, when you have encountered enough people and things after Nothing can not understand the. “” You