我17岁时与本村姑娘张群香订了婚。她比我小一岁。那年冬天,她父亲病逝,母亲也病倒了,她弟弟才9岁,我被突如其来的灾难吓倒了。当时,我也犹豫过,想退了这门亲事,但我被她的坚强打动了——她放弃了学业,毅然挑起了家庭的重担。我们好像从十六七岁的少年一下子成了大人。1996年她家的房子又倒了,连住的地方都没有了。她的精神 When I was 17, I married Zhang Qunxiang, a girl in my village. She is one year younger than me. That winter, when her father died and her mother fell ill, her brother was 9 years old and I was intimidated by the catastrophic disaster. At that time, I also hesitated, want to retire this marriage, but I was impressed by her strong - she gave up her studies, resolutely provoked the family burden. We seem to be adults from the age of 16 or 17. Her house was down again in 1996, and there was no place to live. Her spirit