有一天,释迦牟尼给他的几个弟子讲了个故事:有个商人娶了四个老婆:第一个老婆既伶俐又可爱,陪在他身边,像影子一样跟随他;第二个老婆是他从外地抢来的,她格外美丽,让人羡慕;第三个老婆,整天打理他的日常琐事,让他不用为生活操心;第四个老婆是最忙的,但是他不知道她整天都在忙什么,他几乎忘记了她的存在。 One day, Sakyamuni told some of his disciples a story: a businessman married four wives: the first wife is both clever and lovely, with him, like a shadow follow him; the second He robbed him from the field, she is particularly beautiful, enviable; the third wife, day-to-day care of his daily routine, so he does not have to worry about life; the fourth wife is the busiest, but he does not Knowing that she was busy all day, he almost forgot her existence.