本文通过对小说《红楼梦》和《曼斯菲尔德庄园》的对比阅读,分析女主人公黛玉与芬妮的相似与不同,呈现出家庭关系、教养和亲密关系对她们的塑造和影响,主要体现在爱与责任、情感与利益的家庭关系的差别和她们在这样的关系中建构起来的品格的差别,而其背后可追寻的却是来自信仰的影响。 This article analyzes the similarities and differences between the heroines Dai Yu and Fanny through the comparative reading of the novel “A Dream of Red Mansions” and Mansfield Manor, showing the shaping and influence of the family relations, education and intimacy on them, mainly reflected in The difference between the family relations of love and responsibility, emotion and interest, and the character they built up in such a relationship, is traced back to the influence of faith.