“杨老师,我不敢跟同学说话,也很少和他们一起玩,上课最怕老师点我回答问题……我去年才来上海,对很多流行的东西一点也不了解,有时都不知道同学们在说什么。我们家就我和爸爸在上海,可我都没什么话跟他说……”这是花季女孩小P的烦恼。敲门走进心理辅导室时,她非常紧张。可以看出:来找我,她是鼓足了勇气。小P看上去文静乖巧,不过通过交流,我发现她非常自卑,这在每届新生中并不少见。十六七岁的新生,正处于青春期,较为敏感,也极易忧虑、自卑。通过分析小P的情况,我想告诉同学们一 “Yang, I can not talk to my classmates, I seldom play with them, the class fears the teacher to point me to answer the question ...... I came to Shanghai last year, do not know a lot of popular things, sometimes I do not know My classmates are talking about him in Shanghai, but I have nothing to say to him ... ”This is the worry of the young girl P. She was very nervous when she knocked on the door and entered the counseling room. Can be seen: come to me, she is enough courage. Small P looks quiet and clever, but through the exchange, I found that she is very inferior, which is not uncommon in every freshman. The 16-year-old freshman, who is in adolescence, is more sensitive and vulnerable to anxiety and inferiority. By analyzing the situation of small P, I want to tell my classmates one